Been cheated on?

Separating Relationship Dynamics from the Act of Cheating

Too often, cheating is blamed on flaws within the relationship itself. We reject this narrative—because it shifts responsibility onto the victim. Just as it's unacceptable to question a survivor of assault about their clothing, it's equally wrong to suggest that someone's shortcomings "caused" their partner to cheat.

When a relationship faces challenges, there are only two moral paths: communicate and work through the issues together, or end the relationship with honesty. Cheating is never justified, except in the rarest circumstances where someone is truly unable to leave.

You're Not Alone—We're Here When You Need Us

Your friends are invaluable during this time—lean on them whenever you can. But when they're busy or you need extra support, our community is here. We offer patient, understanding ears and a safe space to share your pain and your story.

Helping You to Move Forward

The most important step now isn't revenge—it's healing and growth. If your heartbreak is recent, you might feel stuck or overwhelmed. That's normal. In time, you can find meaning and even strength from this experience.

Consider:

• What have you learned about yourself and the relationships you want?
• Were there red flags you might have missed?

You deserve support, understanding, and the chance to move forward—on your own terms. We're here to help you do just that.